That day when you look at your spouse and realize that
you’ve accomplished everything you set out to accomplish after you
retired? Yeah, that’s happened.
For those of you whose goal is to retire, be advised: retirement is a doorway, not a
destination. When we retired we knew we
would buy a trailer and work as campground hosts for five years. During this time we would continue to become
totally debt-free by reinvesting most of our rental income back into the
properties.
Fast forward four years, five months, and three days, and
here we are. We decided to give up camp hosting
after the summer of 2015 and learned that we quite enjoy camping without
cleaning toilets. All our rental
properties are paid for. Our hard work
helping our son and daughter-in-law plan and execute their wedding culminated
in a beautiful October 1 celebration.
And we have set no additional goals.
So now what do we want to do? Travel?
Downsize? Buy a summer home (or
in our case, a winter home)? Just for
fun, I looked through an attempt at a “Bucket List” written in 2004 (eight
years before we retired, and three years before we started calling them Bucket
Lists). There are 33 items on the
list.
#1 is to write and publish a novel.
I’m working on it. I’ve been working on
it since 2012. I’m on Chapter 31.
#2 is to own two condos – one in
SLC and one someplace warm.
Of the remaining 31 items, 13 are places I want to travel to
(2 accomplished), 6 are things I’d like to do with my time (2 accomplished), 2
are things I’d like to learn, 3 are places I’d like to sing (2 accomplished), 2
are places I’d like to volunteer (1 accomplished), 2 are items I’ve since
decided I never want to do, and the
rest are pretty random . Things like owning
another pug, giving the kids nice weddings, and running a 5K. Yes, I did write 5K. How was I to know what an avid runner I would
become? So far I’ve accomplished 11 ½
of the 33 items on my list.
Just for fun, I shared the list with my husband. He agreed with me that traveling more and
trading in the big house for two smaller houses were ideas worth considering. Maybe it’s time to transform these from the
bucket list to actual goals that we can work on together.